But it’s the first five minutes that count the most. That’s the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to “reel himin.”
Here are some characteristicsthat men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.
• A woman’s attitude. Men love a womanwith confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traitsmen will be attracted to.
• Her smile. Subconsciously, men are drawn to certainsmiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievouslook.
• Your girls. Oh yea. He is checking out whomyou hang with. He will be intimidated by a large groupof women, but will approach a lady ina trio. If he’s rejected, at least he knows the giggles will be at a minimum.
• A woman’s hair. They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sureyour weaveis fresh! In fact, researchshows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.
• Your makeup. Keep it lightand natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.
• The butt and the bust. Yea, you knewthat was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wearspandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons.
• Your bag. Yep. He will checkout your purse. If you arelugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a signthat you are high maintenanceand that you are also materialistic(that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.
So ladies, look yourbest and show thatsmile, whether you aregoing to the super market or out with your crew. You never know when you are going to encounter “the one.”
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